Love and mess

So, it's been a while. Almost three weeks, actually.
There has been a lot going on in my life, both good and bad.

Now my life has been turned somewhat upside down, as all of the plans my fiancé and I made has pretty much been sent straight down the toilet because of the ridiculous UK Border Agency and their unreasonable immigration officers that make decisions based on assumptions.
They decided to remove Daniel from the country both times he tried to enter, and now it seems like it will be very difficult for him to enter the UK for a while.
I'll write a more detailed post about the situation a bit later.

For now, I'll update you guys about the last few weeks with a little summary of photos and such:

Rat cuddles.

A lot of crying.

Deadbirdhaus' Bumblebee cuddles.

Calming lavender baths.

Travelling to Norway with bestie.

Getting my beautiful engagement ring and spending lazy mornings in bed with my beautiful fiancé and dearest Felix.

Loads of kisses and cuddles with my man.

Waiting at the airport, yet again, for 5 hours while the UKBA got ridiculous again.

Missing my man when he got sent back to Norway.

Enjoying the nice gift from my lovely mother-in-law.

Pierced Annie's boyfriend's septum (my first septum).

Travelled back to Norway.

Got to see my man again.

Enjoyed my mum's amazing vegan pizza.

Went for dog walks with little sister and fiancé.

Dog cuddles!

So, as you can see, I've been very busy the last few weeks.
I'm trying to figure out what to do with my life now that all this shit with the UKBA has happened.
It looks like I'll be changing school (which is really ok with me as school is currently one big mess and I'm not too pleased), and hopefully we'll be moving to a new place as soon as possible so we can be together for good.

I'll update you all very soon! Stay tuned.



Loads of love,
Malin

To the news!

I told you I had some news yesterday. Some of my friends and most of my family already knows.
You wanna know too?
...Ok!

Remember this right here? That I'm not allowed to actually see until my man arrives in London the 4th of October? Could you guess what it was?
If you guessed a ring, you are right, 'cause...

I'm getting married!

To the most wonderful man in the world!

This is so obscure and amazing.
I've never actually wanted to get married, I've never been fantasizing about it or imagined my wedding.
But this feels completely right.

I guess it's pretty obvious we're doing this for practical reasons, but it's simply because we want to be together. Actually, we need to be together.

The wedding will most likely take place in Norway in October, and I'll hopefully get to have my mum, little sister, dad, grandma, step grandma, other family and most of my friends there.
Now we just need to figure out where we can get a civil marriage performed, if we're gonna have a wedding dinner and/or a wedding party, who we are going to invite and where to hold it.
We're not doing it too formal at all, so fortunately there is not as much planning needed as a "normal" wedding.
But I sure as hell am excited!

I've already started looking at dresses and rings...
Etsy is my friend and I think I've pretty much found the rings I wanna get for us.
Daniel is so so so special to me and I wanna get us rings that suit us, that we'll both love to wear for the rest of our lives.
'Cause I want to be with this man for the rest of my life with all of my heart.

Loads and loads of love,
Malin